Affairs dating married men advice
It may be fun to sneak around, and to entertain fantasies of this guy choosing you – but what if his wife catches you?
The mistress may console herself by saying the marriage had already soured.
Don't begin dating immediately as you need to work through the emotional upheaval of the affair.
Let yourself get angry and cry over the break-up just as you would had it been a relationship with a single man. Your best friends likely knew of your involvement with the married man, so let theirs be the shoulders you lean on at this time.
Volunteer for causes you care about once you are far enough along in your grieving process to help others.
Join a support group, where you can talk out your feelings about the affair with others who have gone through the same thing.
If he chooses you, he needs to terminate his existing relationship, process the emotions that will accompany that – and then maybe you’ll consider a relationship with him.